Riss,
That is what I originally thought as well. In fact we have been living together for 4 years. When I called to request the relevant forms, the lady was particularly concerned about whether or not we have a domestic partnership. The couple I spoke with at Einstein, who were not married, were rejected from housing until they received DP. Unfortunately, I am nor from CA, where heterosexuals can get DP. The woman on the phone said a lack of DP is a dealbreaker, and then offered me no other option but to expedite my wedding, which is not going to happen, for obvious reasons. I was just wondering if anyone else is going through these hoops and how they might have persuaded the housing office to let them move in with their fiancé.
On a different note, thank you fir the congratulations, we are very excited about starting a new part of our lives in NY