Depends on how much of a gap there is between UM and the other school you're considering. If it's any more than 50k, go to the other school. UM isn't as "elite" an institution as they make themselves out to be. They promote themselves as an having an "east coast reputation with a midwestern feel." However, they actually have "a midwestern reputation with an east coast mentality." I got that quote from a resident at UM who went to HMS. I find it pretty fitting.
How do they make themselves out to be exactly? I think they are honest of who they are and who they aren't. They are a top 10 institution that actually has much more respect country wide than their ranking. They are a top 10 funded medical school and have consistently been in the top 10 in funding and resources for quite some time now. They are not Harvard or Hopkins and they never pretended to be. I do like U Mich but I am trying to be as objective here as possible. You just seem to love to disparage them.
Uh, it's not that difficult. They could try to be like any other top school and allow everyone to sign up for second look. Additionally, they could try to give everyone the SAME OPPORTUNITY TO SIGN UP. Many students got e-mails 4-5 days after others, which locked them out of any chance at a revisit spot.
Also, if my state school can afford to invite everyone, then so can Michigan. Ever see a school like HMS, Penn, Yale, Stanford, UCSF, Duke or Hopkins tell any of their accepted students they can't meet their future classmates? UM isn't treating its students fairly. I dislike the notion of a school saying they are so friendly to everyone during interview day, but then give out such biased treatment. But, hey, UM has to look out for itself, which apparently means luring ivy students to their school at all costs.
And, I don't mean to completely denigrate UM. It's a great school. I'm just saying they're using some fairly devious tactics, which isn't exactly congruent with the image they try to project. Clearly, you love UM BubbaChuck and that's great. However, there is nothing wrong with some constructive criticism. I know UM reads these posts. Maybe they'll read them and consider changing their douchey behavior in the future.