I think forums like these are suitable for any type of expression in response to the situation. If this is how someone needs to vent, let it be. People are here to communicate their feelings about the schools, if they are excited/sad/frustrated/etc. and can ask for clarity. I interviewed in the first round and have emailed with Dr. Inzana sparingly. It’s been frustrating, but I’m glad to hear others are frustrated too.
Personally, I think this argument you’re referring to comes from a misunderstanding on both sides. You talk about how you’re waiting on Cornell and there’s frustration there. But you have an acceptance with LIU so you have options. Some people don’t have any at all, so try to look through that lens of this being it and have sympathy. People just want their experience waiting on communication with this school to be validated.
I hope you can see what I’m saying. Any person going into a medical field should be able to understand all views/perspectives and communicate back in a constructive, respectful, mature way. I understand what you’re saying in your messages, I understand how these waitlists work. But honestly, it still feels good to know that I’m not the only one anxiously waiting to hear back about anything.
Any one of us could be a peer to you in the future working in the field of veterinary medicine, be it a school or professional peer later down the line. We should all keep that in mind and work on better and more sympathetic communication to one another. We all want to be here, all want to go to vet school and strengthen the field. Just be nice! Take a minute to understand the other person before you respond. And as always, if you don’t have anything nice (or respectful or mature) to say, please don’t say anything at all.