To everyone who didn’t get the news they were hoping for today...whether you were waitlisted or didn’t get in...please know that this is not the end of your journey. As hard as it may feel right now, take today (and maybe even tomorrow) to grieve, to feel your emotions, and to process everything. But don’t let this stop you from chasing your dream. You will do great things, and sometimes the path just takes a little longer than expected.
I was in your exact position last year...I was waitlisted, and the day I got that email was absolutely horrible. I won’t go into details, but that day turned into one of the worst days of my life, and I was in a bit of a funk for several days. But after coming to terms with everything, I started making plans to reapply, figuring I’d take the next year to grow, improve, and live my life outside of school. And then, when I least expected it, I got an email saying I was off the waitlist.
If you were waitlisted, don’t lose hope...there’s still a chance! If you didn’t get in, don’t let this define you. One thing I highly recommend is meeting with an academic advisor over the summer to go over your application and see where you can improve- they should send out emails later this spring closer to this summer. But don’t overthink things too much (I know, almost impossible in this career and with how hard you worked to get here). Sometimes it’s just about timing.
The best advice I can give is to keep moving forward—keep making plans as if you won’t get in this year, but also leave room for the possibility that you will. No matter what happens, you are not defined by this one moment, and your journey isn’t over. Everything is okay, and you will get there. Keep pushing forward. Just keep swimming <3