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Well written. Did you already send it?
Ya, a few days ago. No response yet. I'm hoping they forwarded it to the disability officer lady.
Well written. Did you already send it?
UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHVIRMP letter of intent: I hate you.
My vet school personal statement was not this hard to write
Application pulled and interview canceled. Didn't even receive a phone call, just a short email.
Sad that it's still like this in the year 2015. Here's to hoping a US vet school wants me .
That sucks, I'm sorry. I know my school has a lot of accommodations put into place for people with disabilities. I'll admit it bothers me sometimes because some students are allowed to essentially just not do portions of activities that are mandatory and graded for everyone else, essentially getting a free pass, but I totally get it a lot of the times especially when those students recognize their limitations and have no desire to do surgery or large animal medicine. Hope it works out for you!Application pulled and interview canceled. Didn't even receive a phone call, just a short email.
Sad that it's still like this in the year 2015. Here's to hoping a US vet school wants me .
Application pulled and interview canceled. Didn't even receive a phone call, just a short email.
Sad that it's still like this in the year 2015. Here's to hoping a US vet school wants me .
I'll admit it bothers me sometimes because some students are allowed to essentially just not do portions of activities that are mandatory and graded for everyone else, essentially getting a free pass, but I totally get it a lot of the times especially when those students recognize their limitations and have no desire to do surgery or large animal medicine. Hope it works out for you!
That sucks, I'm sorry. I know my school has a lot of accommodations put into place for people with disabilities. I'll admit it bothers me sometimes because some students are allowed to essentially just not do portions of activities that are mandatory and graded for everyone else, essentially getting a free pass, but I totally get it a lot of the times especially when those students recognize their limitations and have no desire to do surgery or large animal medicine. Hope it works out for you!
For instance, my SO had an above-the-knee amputation and is extremely limited in the types of physical activities he can do.
Damn amputees. Stop complaining about your missing legs, you got it easy
LOL, he's such a brat... He used to be super into sports like you and it's hard because he can't really play any of the sports he used to, but at least he can walk! And he just got a $40,000 running leg and doesn't use it because he "doesn't have time".
Is it a free pass for the situation I'm talking about? Yes. I don't want to get into too many specifics because I don't particularly enjoy badmouthing classmates, and I'd rather not call anyone out, but there are some (I want to stress the "some" part of this. There are a fair number of students with accommodations in my program and a lot of them work just as hard as the rest of us and have to complete the same practicums and exams) students who are given a free pass. Yes, they do have to learn the same material but they're not tested on the same basis as everyone else. Now, I completely get being allowed to amend a rubric for something like suturing in order to take into consideration that a student may not be able to hold their needle drivers in a certain way due to an inherited muscle disorder or something of the sort. I understand that student getting more time. What I don't like is when the students who receive these accommodations don't show up to class, don't study, and don't work on the skills that will be tested. Yes, we can tell when you skip class every day "to study" and that studying isn't actually happening. In addition to that, I don't like when those students who don't put in any work, because they have accommodations, don't face any repercussions as a result of that. Just to give one particular example: having a physical disability that makes it a little harder for you to hold instruments, or remain standing and mobile for long periods of time does not give you an excuse to incise into the linea scalpel pointing perpendicular to the abdomen, especially when this is at the end of your surgery rotation. You should know better by now, and that knowledge has nothing to do with your disability. I want to stress that I know this person and their disability -- I'm not just assuming things about them and what they can and cannot doIs it a free pass, like you say? Do they still have to learn the material? I'm super chill about disability related stuff so don't take this as me being combative, I'm just wondering. To tell you the truth, I probably thought the same way you did a few years ago. Hell, I honestly don't remember ever interacting with a person in a wheelchair for 25 years of my life. But now, almost 4 years post-injury, I've lived on both sides of the fence and have really come to understand and appreciate hurdles that people go through, regardless of situation or disability.
It's all perspective, but "favorings" are made each and every day for a number of reasons: the super pretty girl who's treated differently than her peers by a vet school professor, the native individual who (according to the vet I shadowed) was admitted to his Canadian vet school with lower grades because spots are held for that demographic, the white person who's hired over the equally capable black person because of some longstanding prejudice a committee member holds, the wheelchair user who's offered accommodations etc, etc.
I welcome compromise, not just because it's part of my life now, but because I think it offers society a chance to be better and more tolerant. I went from a professional athlete to what many may call severely disabled in a split second. It truly can happen to anyone, and I'm sure you would be devastated and upset if you were told you could no longer pursue the career you know you were capable of undertaking simply because you couldn't walk, ESPECIALLY when it could be done with some experimentation and a few tweaks here or there.
I hope I didn't offend!
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As an athlete who trains at the Paralympic level, I can tell you right now (not in a boastful way) that I am likely in better physical shape and have greater strength than a number of your current vet students. If an extremely short, tiny, frail woman applied to your veterinary program and was accepted, how would she fare in the realm of large animal manipulation and restrain? Would you not let her into the program because she was weak and would likely need assistance? Probably not.
..It's all perspective, but "favorings" are made each and every day for a number of reasons: the super pretty girl who's treated differently than her peers by a vet school professor, the native individual who (according to the vet I shadowed) was admitted to his Canadian vet school with lower grades because spots are held for that demographic, the white person who's hired over the equally capable black person because of some longstanding prejudice a committee member holds, the wheelchair user who's offered accommodations etc, etc.
Look, I understand that you didn't mean this the wrong way, and that you are understandably upset with them for the bull**** hand they've dealt you. 100% on your side there, and I too would have sent them a letter.
However, as a 'short, tiny, frail woman,' your post comes off as slightly offensive. You don't need to put another group of people down in order to make yourself look capable. You're better than that. Secondly, I have trained horses for years, restrained all different kinds of livestock, and have pulled my weight when working with large animals, even though I barely weigh more than 100 pounds soaking wet. No one can out-muscle large animals--it's all about leverage. By suggesting your strength, show's your ignorance on this subject. I've seen plenty of large, strong men be completely useless holding a dog, let alone a horse.
I'm probably coming off as too sensitive, but I have often had to prove my worth to people who look at me and see 'short, tiny, frail woman.' I'll never compare being a woman to being disabled, but that doesn't mean it's a walk in the park. People assume we're worthless, and then suggest we get special favors.
I'm sure you have to prove your worth to people who look at you and think something very similar.
Finally, pretty women are treated differently, that's pretty well understood and proven time and time again. It's not universal, but it'd be naive to say it doesn't happen.
I was just pointing stuff out.
I can be pretty upfront when I speak my mind, so I apologize for offending you. I also agree that I am pretty ignorant when it comes to large animals, so consider my argument moot if it's completely off base. The point of the email was to offer other scenarios that feel like grounds for the RVC to deny entrance into the program. "Tiny, weak, and frail" was as descriptor, as was blind in one eye, as was a dude in a wheelchair. Finally, pretty women are treated differently, that's pretty well understood and proven time and time again. It's not universal, but it'd be naive to say it doesn't happen.
I was just pointing stuff out.
Yes, they sometimes are. Often those "favors" and "special treatment" include being sexually harassed in some form or another as well. Or that special treatment is because the personally (generally a man) doesn't think the woman can perform as well as her male cohorts and she needs the special treatment to succeed. Either way, it's sexist and condescending as hell, and not appreciated by the recipient.
Yes, they sometimes are. Often those "favors" and "special treatment" include being sexually harassed in some form or another as well. Or that special treatment is because the personally (generally a man) doesn't think the woman can perform as well as her male cohorts and she needs the special treatment to succeed. Either way, it's sexist and condescending as hell, and not appreciated by the recipient.
I personally don't think these should give anyone an advantage or disadvantage solely because of genetics, however with the way society is today, it does. Just as being certain minorities gives advantages and disadvantages in different scenarios. Food for thought, but without having experienced someone else's battles, it really isn't fair to say that they have an unfair advantage, because you likely don't understand the repercussions that come along with it as well.
Absolutely agree, and I never said that I understand anyone else's battles or stated that any particular person's situation is rainbows and butterflies. I simply pointed out different occasions where one person is favored over another.
I can be pretty upfront when I speak my mind, so I apologize for offending you. I also agree that I am pretty ignorant when it comes to large animals, so consider my argument moot if it's completely off base. The point of the email was to offer other scenarios that feel like grounds for the RVC to deny entrance into the program. "Tiny, weak, and frail" was as descriptor, as was blind in one eye, as was a dude in a wheelchair. Finally, pretty women are treated differently, that's pretty well understood and proven time and time again. It's not universal, but it'd be naive to say it doesn't happen.
I was just pointing stuff out.
so my anatomy professor in vet school definitely had a type he enjoyed looking at. Blond haired and well endowed females. he would go out of his way to help those students, make time for office hours for them, etc. Our class didn't have enough of those, so he made the course harder (he admitted this later) than he did for the next year where there were more of his type. He told me I should break off my engagement with my now husband so I could study anatomy more when I went to ask for help...I will be the first to admit, being pretty does have it's advantages. Without intending to be vain, I understand this completely, and will admit that it has given me an advantage at times. I knowingly use this to my advantage even, dressing nicely and wearing small amounts of makeup that highlight certain features. I also qualify as tiny, however I refuse to call myself "weak or frail." However, it does bother me when people generalize my success being strictly due to the fact that genetically, I was/am lucky. Or to assume that I don't deserve to be where I am or that my life is easier. I have worked incredibly hard to get where I am. My success is due to my intelligence, my work ethic, not my parent's ability to create a pretty daughter.
I personally don't think these should give anyone an advantage or disadvantage solely because of genetics, however with the way society is today, it does. Just as being certain minorities gives advantages and disadvantages in different scenarios. Food for thought, but without having experienced someone else's battles, it really isn't fair to say that they have an unfair advantage, because you likely don't understand the repercussions that come along with it as well.
so my anatomy professor in vet school definitely had a type he enjoyed looking at. Blond haired and well endowed females. he would go out of his way to help those students, make time for office hours for them, etc. Our class didn't have enough of those, so he made the course harder (he admitted this later) than he did for the next year where there were more of his type. He told me I should break off my engagement with my now husband so I could study anatomy more when I went to ask for help...
It totally happens sometimes, which is what I think W2VM was trying to get at. Someone will always have an unfair advantage and someone else will always be at a disadvantage. It's human nature.
I'm really not sure other than tenureHe admitted what he was doing and the school was okay with that? How did he still have a job?
However, as a 'short, tiny, frail woman,' your post comes off as slightly offensive. You don't need to put another group of people down in order to make yourself look capable.
There are certainly "short, tiny, frail" women who should not be veterinarians because of their physical capabilities.
Really? So a "short, tiny, frail" woman "should not" be allowed into the veterinary profession because of her physical capabilities? How is that any less absurd than saying that people in wheelchairs shouldn't become vets? What exactly is the height and weight requirement for working in vet med?
What exactly is the height and weight requirement for working in vet med?
if I had known in undergrad what I do now about my connective tissue...yeah. I shouldn't have gone into vet med. And I wasn't shy in telling others with the same issues about my limitations now. so yeah. I agree. Different people shouldn't be in programs for different reasons.Did I not just say that I consider myself as part of the "deprecated" group? Yes I did. Obviously I don't think that every single woman who is short, tiny, or frail, or else I'd be shooting myself in the foot. I said there are women that shouldn't become veterinarians because of their physical capabilities, where shortness, tinyness, and frailty could be a factor. Not everyone is physically capable of doing everything. There's no way around that. I have close friends and family that I would never want to be around a large animal because they are not physically strong enough to control that animal in a safe manner. I mean this in such a strict sense, it's not even funny. I wouldn't let them near the horses I rode during shows because they simply did not have the capabilities to be safe.
Did I say, "Every woman who is short, tiny, and frail cannot be a veterinarian!"? No I didn't. I said there are women under those categories that shouldn't be; and I'd have no problem extrapolating that to men, either.
At RVC, there doesn't seem like there is one, you just can't be using a wheelchair.
I said there are women that shouldn't become veterinarians because of their physical capabilities, where shortness, tinyness, and frailty could be a factor.
Not everyone is physically capable of doing everything.
There are some women out there who could not physically do the job, and I think that was W2VM's point. I would never try to be a firefighter simply because I'm physically incapable of doing it. That can be extrapolated to being a veterinarian to a certain extent. I don't think he was point another group down at all.
It does not matter how big, burly or strong you are, if you're trying to do something to a horse or cow that doesn't want to be involved (especially if you're doing something painful and/or invasive), the horse or cow is always going to win on brute strength. That's why we have stocks and headgates and twitches and drugs. I would suggest that their incapacity to be safe probably has more to do with a lack of training in animal handling than it does in sheer size.I have close friends and family that I would never want to be around a large animal because they are not physically strong enough to control that animal in a safe manner. I mean this in such a strict sense, it's not even funny. I wouldn't let them near the horses I rode during shows because they simply did not have the capabilities to be safe.
I'm thinking this was a sassy question aimed at me and not really a serious one.
- Signed, a member of the Short Tiny Woman's Veterinary Society,
who has only found her size limiting in her ability to do large animal rectals.
It's the "should"/"shouldn't" that's grating my nerves. Who are you to decide who should and shouldn't become a vet based on their physical characteristics? Why can't a frail person who isn't good at restraining horses be a pathologist or an ophthalmologist? Why can't they go into any of the dozens of fields that don't require physical strength and dexterity?
It does not matter how big, burly or strong you are, if you're trying to do something to a horse or cow that doesn't want to be involved (especially if you're doing something painful and/or invasive), the horse or cow is always going to win on brute strength. That's why we have stocks and headgates and twitches and drugs. I would suggest that their incapacity to be safe probably has more to do with a lack of training in animal handling than it does in sheer size.
- Signed, a member of the Short Tiny Woman's Veterinary Society, who has only found her size limiting in her ability to do large animal rectals.
ETA: My point is, everyone should be given a shot to prove they can do x, y, or z and people shouldn't make assumptions based on looks.
In all serious, not at all. Google the RCVS DDA document and take a gander if you ever have 5 minutes to spare and want some comical reading. There's stereotypical examples of autistic students being a nuisance in class, hypothetical situations of building crazy contraptions to hoist theatre major wheelchair students 30 ft in the air to change lightbulbs, and more.
Classically, veterinarian medicine has been looked at as a generalist field: We're all trained in theory to work with all the species. So it makes sense to set up the program such that, if someone has a disability that outright prevents them from handling all the typical species, they would be restricted from entering the program. That's just common sense - it's not a soulless attempt to beat down people with disabilities.
In case it's not obvious, I'm a big fan of limited licensure.
Dibs on President.If that's not a thing it should be a thing.
I've found that my arms aren't always long enough to reach everything The first cow I palpated I had a really hard time grabbing her cervix. I could feel it at the tips of my fingers, but I just needed another half an inch!And that is why they created buckets, mounting blocks, and tailgates.
I think the bigger issue for @wheelin2vetmed is that the wheelchair would probably spook most horses. because horses.
OH GAWD!! It's a stationary object!!! It's gonna get me!!! - How a horse thinksTruth. They would find SOME way to impale themselves upon the wheelchair. It's like they try.....
See, I didn't find this offensive at all. I am five foot nothing, 115/120 chick and I feel he has a point. There are certainly "short, tiny, frail" women who should not be veterinarians because of their physical capabilities. There are some women out there who could not physically do the job, and I think that was W2VM's point. I would never try to be a firefighter simply because I'm physically incapable of doing it. That can be extrapolated to being a veterinarian to a certain extent. I don't think he was point another group down at all.