I for one, came from my interview kind of disappointed from what I’ve seen. One of the people from their staff was very rude to me before the interview. Also, I've heard some not so good stories about this place. One of my friends who is an oms 2 told me that during their OPP labs they get to work various techniques in pairs and the pairs get checked from time to time by the staff present in the lab. So my friend has got this old lady (a D.O I’ve been told) pushing her really hard and straight down through the opp table a few times, namely for the <sake of demonstration. It was also funny to hear her explaining how it was not the technique requiring the partner to be so extremely brutal but this woman’s craziness who picked on her repeatedly. I guess she was getting some revenge on her spine
Just imagine you lying down flat on the table with your face down and this person who is supposed to teach you a “better way” to do the technique gets some sweat out of you because she didn’t like your face the minute before. She tried to complain about it but noticed that only made the things worse
People who can figure out who I am (easy task) can attest to the fact that I've been one of the more vocal people with suggestions about what I would change to make ACOM my ideal medical school. I'm not someone who would ever be chosen to be a student ambassador. I say all this to put the following comments in context.
The story you described is so contrary to my perception of this physician in the story that I could only imagine that playing out if your friend ran over the physician's puppy. Then came back and put up a sign by the body asserting her dominance.
Even then, if it truly played out exactly as your friend framed it, then things were quite underplayed. Abusing a medical modality for some fleeting sense of pleasure would be so contrary to the mission and image of a medical school would have resulted in that physician being quietly shuffled out. Not doubling down and risking a scandal with a future student. I suppose I can't preclude the possibility of some large, silent faction of my class experiencing the same scenario you described. I'll gladly eat my words if that's the case. I don't think I'll need to.
Of course it would be unreasonable for you to
not believe the word of your friend, because well, she's your friend. And I'm not mad at or even irritated by your friend, because I doubt that she didn't mean well. She was just looking out for you. But it's so easy to be frustrated about something in (or outside of) medical school and inappropriately perceive an otherwise neutral interaction to be negative. It's happened to the best of us. I don't wish to discount your interaction with the faculty member you felt was rude, but as Byron said, I hope you pass that on to the school, they'd take that very seriously.
At any rate, congratulations on your acceptance! I'm sure this is a very exciting time for you, make the best of your free time. I do encourage you to keep these responses in the back of your mind. Perhaps if you ever have a negative experience that you feel strongly about, you'll take the time to consider if your perceptions are skewed. I think your friend's might have been.