People really need to look in the mirror before they start degrading others based on personal biases and stupid cultural norms.
Your perception that spyderefs is being ungrateful, arrogant, or obnoxious with his statements is more a reflection of your own personal dissatisfaction than any actual slight in spy's comment. People are often jealous or intimidated by others success in life and express it through negative perceptions of them. I'm sure theres a psych term for it, but i'm not a psych major. The problem is in your head and the head of society who's main objective is to drive everyone towards the mean as opposed to embracing the extremes.
Maybe this person received multiple acceptances and has the option to chose schools based on money, weather, facilities, gambling, boozing, prostitution...whatever. It should have no bearing on you or anyone else. Maybe if you put in more work, read more books, were conceived by Richard Feynman, you too could be in the same position. If not, there is no justification in putting down someone who has earned their position in society.
Also, everyone doesnt share the same perception of medical school as society has perpetuated in being an honor and privilege that cannot be questioned. People go for different reasons. Most of the people who read SDN fall into the category of idolizing medicine for something that it is not, only to be disappointed when they get into the profession. Others attend because of the science, money, uncertainty about their future, or stupid cultural norms(other cultures).
Going to law school is no less prestigious than going to medical school, but i'm guessing most law students dont have CLASS OF 2014!!!!!!! plastered as the footer to everything they ever write. Medical school is a step closer to the real world, maybe people should kinda start acting like it. The high school pep rally attitude will surely go away when you spend 36 hours of your weekend studying. That seems to be the cure to pep-itis. I'm hilarious, i know
PS. I got linked to this thread by a friend who just got accepted to UIC and my main objective was simply to embarrass her...and myself apparently too, lol. I usually just do it over email, but publicly is extra fun. I'm not as cynical as i made it seem, but some of the issues i discussed do bug me about society in general. It'd be nice if people could be more individualistic, as opposed to absorbing everything that society is feeding us. Paris Hilton, Nancy Grace, and "John and Kate plus 8" should have zero influence over people, but for some reason we just have to care about every girl that disappears in Aruba, as though it doesnt happen all the time to thousands of other people, but Nancy Grace thinks this girl is really important so we all have to give a hoot. We all have brains, lets use them.
Oh, med school is awesome for reasons that you cant even imagine yet...so you probably should be stoked. Damn me contradicting my own arguments.
