Dear all,
I will preface this novel-post hybrid with "I was accepted into CUSOM last week, and will be matriculating here in 2016." Now that I may have your attention, please take everything I'm about to say with a grain of salt. Oh the irony.
I have never posted here. I used to follow this website (earlier this year) until I realized that it was more stressful to me than beneficial. For this reason, this will be my first and last post. However, I will be available for personal messaging if you wish to contact me. I'm happy to help to the best of my ability!
To this end, I will attempt to share everything that trends among the SDN community, and perhaps everything you care to know about my life.
STATS (ughh): LM 72, in-state, non-traditional, 1st time applicant
Primary submitted: 6/2/15
Secondary Received: 7/29/15
Application Complete (processed): 8/10/15
Interview Invite: 9/14/15
Interviewed: 10/2/15
Accepted: 11/4/15
Possible voices in your head right now (many of which I have battled as well!):
"I'm excited this person is going to by my classmate next year!"
"Hopefully the writer isn't a boy, then I have better chances. Hmm, now that I think about it, what is the male to female ratio?"
"Darn I'm OOS with the same LM, might as well give up on this one."
"My LM was higher than his/hers AND I interviewed before him/her, but I haven't been accepted. My life is ruined, maybe I'll go into podiatry."
"My application has been complete for 6 weeks now, definitely not going to get an II."
"Wow this person is sooo well spoken, do I have to sound like him/her in my upcoming interview??"
"Uhh where's my secondary?"
Now, take a breath, and do your best to suppress the mind games. We're different people. Not knowing what's next is what makes life worth it and our future profession so rewarding. All you can do is be you, do your best, and hope for the best. We all will fail at times, and we all will triumph. There's no avoiding that - lean into it and enjoy the ride.
Try to relax through this process. If reading SDN is your way to relax, do it. If your heart skips a beat every time a new post is published, then maybe consider abstaining from it. You know you the best. SDN is truly a great resource, and it's an awesome way to connect (not compare) with and learn from like-minded individuals. As I said, take it's utility with a grain of salt, such as this post. You all are going to do awesome with whatever it is you do!
- Person writing on SDN