2018-2019 Waitlist Support Thread

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I was told the same thing. So now I am repositioning myself to a category that is not as crowded
It seems like a game at this point. I know of people with low stats who identified as an extremely URM minority and got multiple MD acceptances. Obviously the schools didn’t check for this because they get to boast increased diversity now.

Edit: not saying URM have it easier, just find it weird how the schools can be so easily lied to.
 
It seems like a game at this point. I know of people with low stats who identified as an extremely URM minority and got multiple MD acceptances. Obviously the schools didn’t check for this because they get to boast increased diversity now.
N=1 but here’s a story I have. I am a white male with solid stats (3.8 510-512) and good ECs. A guy I worked with in my lab had ~3.5 504 and little to no volunteer hours. He was incredibly wealthy (drive a bmw 7 Series brand new lol) and he was 1/4 AA and grew up in a white neighborhood, but hr identified himself as a urm. He got into our state school (it’s mid tier) on a scholarship and I’m on the waitlist. I’m sorry but this system has major flaws
 
N=1 but here’s a story I have. I am a white male with solid stats (3.8 510-512) and good ECs. A guy I worked with in my lab had ~3.5 504 and little to no volunteer hours. He was incredibly wealthy (drive a bmw 7 Series brand new lol) and he was 1/4 AA and grew up in a white neighborhood, but hr identified himself as a urm. He got into our state school (it’s mid tier) on a scholarship and I’m on the waitlist. I’m sorry but this system has major flaws
Fully agree, this just one of many examples
 
N=1 but here’s a story I have. I am a white male with solid stats (3.8 510-512) and good ECs. A guy I worked with in my lab had ~3.5 504 and little to no volunteer hours. He was incredibly wealthy (drive a bmw 7 Series brand new lol) and he was 1/4 AA and grew up in a white neighborhood, but hr identified himself as a urm. He got into our state school (it’s mid tier) on a scholarship and I’m on the waitlist. I’m sorry but this system has major flaws
The story I have is way worse. It’s so bad that I don’t even want to type it out because I get triggered just thinking about it
 
I think the LozzyM score site also shows how your stats compare to those with the same ethnicity. It basically shows one look at your odds at getting in and who you're up aga9nst.
 
The story I have is way worse. It’s so bad that I don’t even want to type it out because I get triggered just thinking about it

The only way you can get over your experience is by talking about it. It is written on the same sociology/psychology textbook that told me gender is fluid and I should not let society defines who I am.
 
The only way you can get over your experience is by talking about it. It is written on the same sociology/psychology textbook that told me gender is fluid and I should not let society defines who I am.
Man, I can't tell if you're serious or not. If you get an interview then what? You gonna wear makeup, eyeliner, and earrings?
 
it's so hard to see a path forward

why keep trying? i dont want to still be a resident at age 40 but thats where im headed, especially with my debt. i dont think i can go into work tomorrow, i work with students residents and attendings every day, they are so lucky

plus ug loans grow every day and i wont get any money even if i ever get in, im financially screwed and every extra gap year it gets worse

have you applied to DO also?
 
N=1 but here’s a story I have. I am a white male with solid stats (3.8 510-512) and good ECs. A guy I worked with in my lab had ~3.5 504 and little to no volunteer hours. He was incredibly wealthy (drive a bmw 7 Series brand new lol) and he was 1/4 AA and grew up in a white neighborhood, but hr identified himself as a urm. He got into our state school (it’s mid tier) on a scholarship and I’m on the waitlist. I’m sorry but this system has major flaws
Ok but that’s my point like you have no idea what people went through or what’s in their personal statements or was discussed in their interview or the quality of their interview. You’re just guessing. It’s never just about stats. What you all are seeming to say is that looking for representation and diversity in med school is something that is “majorly flawed”. Just is a bad take.
 
Ok but that’s my point like you have no idea what people went through or what’s in their personal statements or was discussed in their interview or the quality of their interview. You’re just guessing. It’s never just about stats. What you all are seeming to say is that looking for representation and diversity in med school is something that is “majorly flawed”. Just is a bad take.
I’m not guessing lol I knew this guy really well, I worked with him for over a year and would often hit the bars and stuff with them as well. This individual also lied about wanting to do primary care in a rural area when they want to go derm so there’s that
 
I'm gonna note your profile as one to remember and message next year, let me know how it goes

Also, I think you might have incorrectly assumed my previous gender. If I were a transgendered man, all I need to do is to get a very short haircut and not to put any makeup on. And speak with a deeper voice.
 
I'm african but my country is considered white per US census..so I put white. ask me how I feel now
 
Brainstorming ways for those on the waitlist to become more well-rounded and move forward is not supportive?
I will ask again, do not perpetuate animosity against each other here.
 
N=1 but here’s a story I have. I am a white male with solid stats (3.8 510-512) and good ECs. A guy I worked with in my lab had ~3.5 504 and little to no volunteer hours. He was incredibly wealthy (drive a bmw 7 Series brand new lol) and he was 1/4 AA and grew up in a white neighborhood, but hr identified himself as a urm. He got into our state school (it’s mid tier) on a scholarship and I’m on the waitlist. I’m sorry but this system has major flaws
For every story like this, I can think of another about a "urm" or one exemplifying diversity of experience (life circumstances or socioeconomic) having a disproportionately difficult time reaching the same level of academic achievement.
I'm white, but certain life circumstances made filling out my diversity essay easy.
Not to derail the thread - I'll step down from my soapbox. Not this comment, but another was unseemly.
 
For every story like this, I can think of another about a "urm" or one exemplifying diversity of experience (life circumstances or socioeconomic) having a disproportionately difficult time reaching the same level of academic achievement.
I'm white, but certain life circumstances made filling out my diversity essay easy.
Not to derail the thread - I'll step down from my soapbox. Not this comment, but another was unseemly.
There are many who are actually disadvantaged, it ashame when people like I mentioned take advantage of it
 
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it's so hard to see a path forward

why keep trying? i dont want to still be a resident at age 40 but thats where im headed, especially with my debt. i dont think i can go into work tomorrow, i work with students residents and attendings every day, they are so lucky

plus ug loans grow every day and i wont get any money even if i ever get in, im financially screwed and every extra gap year it gets worse

I am so sorry about what is happening to you. I hope you can take some time to sort out your feelings. Do remember to find someone to look at your application to see how you can improve your application. Take a couple more gap years if you need to become a better applicant. Age is just a number. They say 40 is the new 20. It is a marathon and not a sprint. Put your head down and work on yourself. I am sure all your suffering will make you a better physician for your future patients.
 
N=1 but here’s a story I have. I am a white male with solid stats (3.8 510-512) and good ECs. A guy I worked with in my lab had ~3.5 504 and little to no volunteer hours. He was incredibly wealthy (drive a bmw 7 Series brand new lol) and he was 1/4 AA and grew up in a white neighborhood, but hr identified himself as a urm. He got into our state school (it’s mid tier) on a scholarship and I’m on the waitlist. I’m sorry but this system has major flaws
i agree. you can't ignore these things like they aren't messed up but at the same time being URM doesn't hinder you in preparing to become a physician. I feel like if they really wanted to go after a "diversity" approach they need to target people who make no money. A lot of people from wealth can afford tutors and mcat classes that poorer folks can't and I feel like that's why there's usually a discrepancy for stats.

anyone who thinks they're disadvantaged because they look different is part of the problem imo. It comes down to resources
 
i agree. you can't ignore these things like they aren't messed up but at the same time being URM doesn't hinder you in preparing to become a physician. I feel like if they really wanted to go after a "diversity" approach they need to target people who make no money. A lot of people from wealth can afford tutors and mcat classes that poorer folks can't and I feel like that's why there's usually a discrepancy for stats.

anyone who thinks they're disadvantaged because they look different is part of the problem imo. It comes down to resources
I think the urm thing though is to bring color into medicine. In an interview, I discussed a time when differences in race made it difficult for me to form a productive relationship with a patient. Although, i haven't had too many of those situations, this was extreme in my experience (gang member with violent history). I also discussed how it was helpful to have a diverse team, who the patient could trust. At the time, it was more important to make his entry into healthcare a positive experience before one could touch on years of trauma.
Probably not too helpful if BMW guy can't relate in more ways than race, however, it's a good start.
 
@gyngyn

Hi gyngyn, I saw that SDN members (adcoms?) On MD/PhD threads were estimating about 3% of the WL movement is remaining for MD/PhD students. Do you anticipate a similar percent for MD only (and can this vary from year to year)?

Thank you
 
I think the urm thing though is to bring color into medicine. In an interview, I discussed a time when differences in race made it difficult for me to form a productive relationship with a patient. Although, i haven't had too many of those situations, this was extreme in my experience (gang member with violent history). I also discussed how it was helpful to have a diverse team, who the patient could trust. At the time, it was more important to make his entry into healthcare a positive experience before one could touch on years of trauma.
Probably not too helpful if BMW guy can't relate in more ways than race, however, it's a good start.
It is. And so many times I’ve seen applicants complain about URM applicants with strong socioeconomic backgrounds having an easier time during admissions, despite not being disadvantaged. That’s not the point. If applicants think this process is solely meritocratic, they’re dead wrong. It’s about picking our country’s future doctors. And diverse patients prefer diverse doctors, so we need to emphasize diversity in admissions. There’s no hidden rule stating that medical school admissions needs to be based on merit only, but somehow we think it should be because we inaccurately equate merit to fairness.
 
ZZZZ, you folks are causing a flurry of reports so please just stop before the thread gets locked.

- Be supportive, that's the point. Waiting is frustrating for everyone and belittling those in the same situation as you is not a healthy coping mechanism

- Yes, it may seem a little "PC police" to reign in some of the comments being made but please think about the implications of your words before hitting the reply button, particularly when those comments are aimed at groups that already face a ton of harassment. Finding empathy is probably something that will improve your own chances, as it is generally quite evident even in casual conversation that someone possesses this highly-desireable trait.
 
It is. And so many times I’ve seen applicants complain about URM applicants with strong socioeconomic backgrounds having an easier time during admissions, despite not being disadvantaged. That’s not the point. If applicants think this process is solely meritocratic, they’re dead wrong. It’s about picking our country’s future doctors. And diverse patients prefer diverse doctors, so we need to emphasize diversity in admissions. There’s no hidden rule stating that medical school admissions needs to be based on merit only, but somehow we think it should be because we inaccurately equate merit to fairness.

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Don't lose hope! You might be not diverse enough for medical schools. It is time to discover your newfound gender identity. You can apply as a transgendered applicant for 2019-2020. Do remember to modify your personal statement to reflect your struggles accordingly though. I am sure your struggles with your gender identity can bring unique and much-needed perspectives to medical school. That's my plan anyway.
what THE HELL IS YOUR PROBLEM? DO YOU THINK THAT PEOPLE WHO ARE TRANSGENDER ARE TO BE MADE FUN OF? Do you even pay attention to what is happening now? is someone sexuality something you as a potential doctor SHOULD LAUGH AT????? YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. you should be ASHAMED of yourself.
 
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I think the urm thing though is to bring color into medicine. In an interview, I discussed a time when differences in race made it difficult for me to form a productive relationship with a patient. Although, i haven't had too many of those situations, this was extreme in my experience (gang member with violent history). I also discussed how it was helpful to have a diverse team, who the patient could trust. At the time, it was more important to make his entry into healthcare a positive experience before one could touch on years of trauma.
Probably not too helpful if BMW guy can't relate in more ways than race, however, it's a good start.
that's an interesting point. yea I agree that seeing more diversity in the people working in healthcare makes patients feel more comfortable, since they are always going to be from the diverse sample size that is America, but at the same time this still doesn't sit right with me. When it comes to creating doctors, merit based admissions only seems logical. I think it's generally the common thought of doctors being the brightest students from undergrad filling these spots. Catering it to making people feel "comfortable" is something that's just too nitpicky to gauge admissions off of. It doesn't improve the treatment plans of doctors for patients. comfortable doesn't translate into better care IMO, maybe just in delivery.

I think they should use SES as a measure for diversity instead of things like race. I think they shouldn't touch it.

But back to the nitpicky comment, it shouldn't be taken to an extreme merit base. Obviously there is the interview to weed out students who just have 0 social skills and couldn't be able to actually connect and care for patients. Those kinds of things are already sorted out. So with that in mind it shouldn't be 100% merit based. So basically the way it mostly is at the moment (minus the race question of course).
 
It is. And so many times I’ve seen applicants complain about URM applicants with strong socioeconomic backgrounds having an easier time during admissions, despite not being disadvantaged. That’s not the point. If applicants think this process is solely meritocratic, they’re dead wrong. It’s about picking our country’s future doctors. And diverse patients prefer diverse doctors, so we need to emphasize diversity in admissions. There’s no hidden rule stating that medical school admissions needs to be based on merit only, but somehow we think it should be because we inaccurately equate merit to fairness.
^see my other comment as a response. definitely a matter of opinion on this but i think the current blend of merit and social skills that's already implemented (minus the race factor) makes more sense then allowing race to weigh more heavily on admissions than the other two. And seems more fair.
 
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