Question from a C/O 2023-er.....
Considering the fact that everyone talks about how miserable vet school is, do any of you all have any advice for how to make it more enjoyable? I hate that I'm so excited about this venture right now, but have been taught that it will supposedly soon crush my soul. I understand that it's going to be hard, overwhelming, etc... but I feel like you can find joy in pretty much anything in life if you try hard enough. So I want to go into this as equipped as possible to prevent becoming miserable.
I think you've got some amazing advice here! I'm huge on self-care and taking time out of studying to spend time with family/friends, I may do so more than I should and as a result it definitely reflects in some of my grades. But that's another thing that I, like others here have said, have had to learn to accept. A lot of us are over-achiever types that are used to being the best of the best, but now we are filled with a class of the best. Everyone has different skill sets and strengths, so don't compare yourself to your classmates, instead utilize their knowledge and skill sets and help each other out! I've made great friends with some equine and LA students, which works out great because I'm solely SA... so we are able to help each other when we struggle!
I also have accepted that what I'm tested on may not be an accurate representation of what I know, so sometimes you get a C or less on an exam, it's okay... take a deep breath, talk to the professor, and move on. It's not the end of the world, again it may not have been your strength, it won't reflect on the type of doctor you'll be.
I stressed about grades and internships in the beginning of first-year, and an intern I worked with (now surgical resident) told me she had a 2.9GPA in vet school, but her LoRs from faculties were amazing, and so is her personality and ability to work with technicians, and in my opinion I think that takes you farther than your GPA/class rank. Sure this won't apply to every single internship, but I think as a field we tend to have a lot of mental health problems, that if getting those As and Bs stresses you out so much to the end of a rope, then you should take a step back. I definitely had to, and we've learned to say: I passed the test! Instead of divulging exact grades, because at this point, we kind of just want to pass and make vet school as fun as possible.
It can be a difficult mindset to get out of (the hating vet school, etc.) I've been there a few times already, I've sat in my bathroom and cried for 45 minutes wondering why I did this with all the stress (mainly came from outside of vet school too). But honestly, it's an amazing experience, you meet so many people you will come to love like family, and it's really so much learning. Surround yourself with people who will help you out of that negative mindset and help you remember why you came here. Vet school is hard enough, you don't need to be with people who will make it worse. Make the most out of your 4 years, because it's the best time to make mistakes and learn along the way.