I was accepted off the WL today. I’m very pleased and grateful, but also a lot has changed in my life the past couple of months and I am conflicted about whether I should take the opportunity. It is the only school I’m accepted at so it’s not about that. I know questioning whether to accept might sound unthinkable to folks on here but please understand there’s personal reasons for my indecision that I’m not comfortable disclosing on a public forum. My question is whether anyone knows if someone like me, who was accepted off the WL, would be permitted to defer enrollment for a year? Or is the attitude “you’re lucky we even deigned to accept you, we’re not giving you a deferral on top of that”. Please don’t crap on me for asking, I promise I have my reasons. Thank you in advance.