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What does it matter how much our parents make? We're adults. Our mommies and daddies aren't going to pay our parking tickets. We're all broke together. That's why it's crazy that schools base financial aid on our parents' incomes. If my parents make $30,000 or $500,000, I'm still in the exact same boat. I'm filling out financial aid forms right now and thinking, wtf??? It's actually kinda insulting.
I'm sorry about the comment. It was a little presumptuous of me to jump to conclusions like that. I was just a little testy at the time because I had heard someone that day with 2 degrees from a private school and both parents as doctors talk about how they talked about "understanding how underserved populations feel" in their interview. They had lower scores (MCAT, GPA) than me and had been accepted to OHSU, whereas I don't even have an interview yet. I'm sorry, but there is nothing in that individuals situation that can come close to giving them the experiences that equal what underserved populations have gone through. I respect that you have sustained for yourself but in my experience it seems as though you would be the minority. Especially having gone to the U of O (I'm assuming you did based on your name) you didn't know multiple people that would just say, "I'll get money from my parents for groceries," or, "I'll just put this weekend on the credit card"? Even those that did sustain for themselves always had the comfort of knowing that if something bad did happen there was a back-up plan. And it's that fact that does not really place you in the exact same boat. If something happens, for me, there is no safety net. Without a third party, equalizing force, such as financial aid, college wouldn't even be an option for a lot of people including me. If financial aid wasn't available do you think that a lot well-off parents that force their kids to sustain themselves and try to teach them to grow up would throw them out in the real world or would they pay for thier college to allow them more opportunities in life? I have payed for my college 100% out of my own pocket without even so much as having my parents buy me a meal. I love my family and they have been 100% emotionally supportive but nobody in my immediate family has ever stepped foot on a college campus (they still haven't, they've never visited the campus) and some have never even graduated high school. It might be the same river but it is a very different boat.