if all the schools act to make their first offers on the waitlist at the same time it should exponentially cut down on how much back n forth there is for everyone.
like if someone got into no schools but is waitlisted by 3 schools and then gets accepted by every one of them sequentially a week or two apart, it would make there be way more work for everyone involved in confirming a spot, relinquishing a spot, and then that school has to try again with another group, a fraction of which would do the same thing on and on and on.
instead if all 3 schools contacted the person at the same time and he weighed them against each other and picked the best one, that would be a lot more straightforward. Also this might help the schools lower the total number of admission offers they give out while still accepting the same students.
thats my theory anyways, its like one big pyramid of offers with each floor of the pyramid being another cycle, and by having all the schools send out their first offers at roughly the same time it should get rid of the first couple floors of the pyramid which are the biggest.
just wish my life wasnt on hold still lol