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You don't know me, so please don't judge me. I understand where you're coming from, but in my defense I feel completely misled by a system that claims to help those in need, and just plain doesn't. I'm from very rural Iowa and I guarantee you had more opportunities in both high school and undergrad to put yourself ahead, so I feel like just getting to this point was a major battle. To then be shoved back down by a school that showers gifts on its acceptees and money on its most favored disciples... well, there's bitterness there, and I'm sorry that I came across as "spoiled" in an online forum. I'm anything but, and I think we'd get along a lot better in person. Best of luck to you.
I have to back you on this Stein. I'm coming from a disadvantaged background and could barely afford the gas money to drive down here for an interview. Applying is a whole different game if you are economically disadvantaged (in every sense, including getting through pre-med classes, MCAT prep--no classes, or tutors here/worked a full time job during studying for example--even just BELIEVING you can get in when your parents haven't even finished college let alone are professionals). It's that much more draining/harder to get through this process in one piece/successfully.
So Stein, don't apologize for your reaction.
catalase, the last thing I saw when I read Stein's post was "spoiled-ness" or entitlement. I saw someone who was once again forced back down/ignored by "the system" and who was frustrated/hurt by that. It's human. Whether you want to admit it or not, not getting a scholarship represents an implicit judgement of your value (in their eyes), so yes, that rejection can hurt. I really don't think you should be so quick to judge.