Guys, guys, guys. . .let's all breathe deeply here and suspend judgment. I understand (as a fellow reject!!) the pain of being turned away, especially when we feel that we had so much to offer, if only given a chance. There is really no humble way to accuse anyone else of lacking humility, is there? SDN is a safe place, I hope, where we all share compassionately. While we may not agree with another's perception, perhaps we could register disagreement without shaming? It can be tough to be the last one picked for any team (again, the voice of experience here.) We wouldn't, when an interviewee exults over her invitation, say, "Yeah, well, they'll take practically anybody" or, when another raves about how great the school is, dispute with that evaluation, or snipe, "Sure, you think that, but what do you know?" We don't know one another, but even the superstars among us may have been judged in a way that they felt unjust and may have commented on the process in haste, thinking that they were venting to sympathetic ears. Christians have to ask themselves if they have ever fallen short before tossing the first stone; Muslims are advised to "stand firm. . .justice is next to piety;" Jews, as Yom Kippur draws nigh, remember Hillel's reminder that we cannot judge another "until we have stood in that other's place;" Hindus and Buddhists are mindful of the laws of karma; secular humanists "preach" tolerance and treating others with respect and sensitivity.
We all know that Pitt is a good school. We applied. We all know that everyone on here is longing to get into a good school and upset--openly or covertly--when even one of the good schools decides against them. Acknowledge, okay? Accept, okay? Be kind, okay? It's not too soon to begin to practice being the type of beyond-average doctors we hope to be.