I know people have it way worse than I do but I just need to vent. I'm so tired of feeling like I'm alone in this. I have no support group and it's all starting to hit a boiling point for me, especially with the NAVLE and match coming up. I've never gotten a single text from my parents, sisters, etc these past four years asking how I'm doing at school, what I'm learning, what I did that day, yet I'm expected to be on standby 24/7/365 for all of their pet-related concerns at all hours, be super interested in every single tiny thing my niece does and be super excited for my currently-baking niece/nephew or I'm selfish. I know it's immature but I can't help but feel pangs of jealously when I see my classmates getting care packages from family/SOs or even a simple Fb wall post offering encouragement. I talked to my mom about it once in first year and she said she assumes I'm "too busy" to talk so she doesn't reach out (yet I've always answered her calls/texts about anything else right away, if not ASAP). I tried a few times to start the conversation with them myself and it always ends with me getting yelled for "dumping my stress on them" (so the opposite of helpful). My family has
always been extremely dysfunctional and emotionally abusive so I can't say any of this is unexpected, but it's really been on my mind lately.
To add to it all, I'm getting married in less than 8 months and was *promised* help from my sister/mom and literally all I have is the venues booked, my dress (which I just went and found by myself, hooray), Save the dates, and bridesmaids dresses. Nothing else. I only went through with a big wedding because I was under a ton of pressure from my mom/sister/fiance to do it (instead of elope or go to a courthouse). All of my other bridesmaids are busy with their careers or a new baby so I can't expect them to take on any responsibilities as a favor to me and I wouldn't want to ask anyways. I have absolutely no time to go back to Michigan just to talk to florists, figure out the cake, etc.
My dad also is being put on the list for a double lung transplant so that's an extra bolus of stress.
I am taking an elective reproductive physiology class and the professor lost my homework assignment that was worth 10% of my grade and gave me a 0. I talked to her about it and she vehemently denies losing it and won't give me credit or a chance to redo it. Now, the highest grade I can get in the course is a B+ (if I get a 100% on the rest of the homework and assignments). Do you guys think I should drop the class? I currently have a 4.0 GPA and this class would ruin it.
This is the worst. Honestly if I were you I would be bugging that professor constantly (be at her office every time you possibly can, offer to help her look through her office to find it, etc). I would also take this up with the ombudsman at your school (or the equivalent person) and file some sort of formal complaint as this is a legitimate conflict that needs resolution. A student who just flat out didn't do the homework wouldn't go as far as filing an official complaint with the college just to try and get credit for the assignment. Once you file the complaint, stay on top of it and call every few days to check the status and request a formal hearing/investigation if they don't initiate one on their own.
I hope the professor learns a lesson from this. Human beings make mistakes such as losing things. The benefit of technology is having a better 'paper' trail in situations like these...I don't understand why we're still doing handwritten assignments. Also, not that this situation is your fault in any way, but it might be a good idea start making photocopies of handwritten assignments before you turn them in to cover your a** and upload all finished digital assignments to a Google drive so you can provide a copy of it at a moment's notice. I witnessed this situation several times at my undergrad so I started doing the above just in case.
I actually went through the same thing except it was my high school anatomy teacher who lost my entire exam. When he handed the graded exams back, I let him know I didn't get mine and he tried to tell me I was absent that day and never scheduled a makeup so I'd been given a zero. After proving I was definitely not absent that day he still tried to tell me I must have skipped the class period to avoid taking the test. After what felt like weeks of arguing and trying to get my worthless principal involved, he gave me a C to shut me up which dragged down my gpa by quite a lot (I had an A in the class up until that). Good times.