To clarify, the middle income match works like this:
To be eligible for anything, you must have more than $0 of financial need. You receive your financial need, X, in grant money.
The maximum middle income grant is $4,600 per quarter. They subtract your actual need, X, from $4,600: $4,600 - X = Y. Stanford will match a parent contribution up to the value of Y. (So even if your parents can't give you the whole amount, Stanford will match what they can give).
However, if you are not determined to have need, then they will not match anything. 🙁
mdeast, I think you're getting $5,000 per quarter from the old system. Because of the reduction in tuition, the middle income match is reduced.