Honestly, I would say this in a face to face conversation. Hearing people whine is not a fun experience and I’m tired of hearing people complain and rather than do something worthwhile with their time. If this was another school that says that they have a really quick turn around time and you still haven’t heard back, honestly, I wouldn’t be bothered. In fact, in other threads, I haven’t been bothered because I understand. But this school is known to screen, is known for a relatively slow turn around time, and have said that they still send out Secondaries later on in the process.
Sure, find solice in the fact that other people are experiencing the same thing but find solice in the fact that the school itself said that they send out secondaries through December. You call me a hardass, say that I have an attitude, and that I need to check my ego before dealing with patients. It’s called being realistic and honest with myself. You can’t deal with every person like they’re made of glass. That is a mistake. Treating everyone that way doesn’t always help people grow. I’ll admit, my approach doesn’t always help people grow either. Denying that is stupid.
But to me, there’s no point in complaining about these problems because I knew what I signed up for when I decided to go apply. I signed up for the waiting game. And you don’t dare get to try and coach me on how I should be in the future with patients because you can’t judge a person based on ONE post in a forum. The biggest thing I wanted people to take from my initial post was that they read the rest of the thread, think before they post and for people to realize that they can’t always be the best but that it’s not the end of the world if they aren’t.
Could I have been nicer about it? Maybe, but it’s clearly too late for that now, isn’t it. Besides, you’re dealing with applicants that know what they decided to get themselves involved with. In the past, present and future, patients and their families never signed up for the pain they went through/are going through/will go through. I’ll save my compassion for the people who need it.